Wednesday, May 7, 2008

We Are Home!

Thank you to everyone who has been praying for Danae and I. I am sure most of my readers know what happened, so if you do not, you can email me and I will explain the whole thing.

Here is an update for those who do not know. The infection in the eye is gone. By God's grace is never made it to her optic nerve (they were worried at first) and as far as they know did not affect her sight. Although the actual infection is gone, her eye is still swollen and there is a place in her nose that is also swollen. Because of that, we are being sent to a surgeon specialist to find out if this will need to be surgically drained.

The Dr.'s do not think that the cysts are anything but fluid, so long term damage will be none. This I am thankful for. Please be praying that the Dr.'s are correct, it is just fluid in these parts, and that whatever needs to be done to fix it will be safe and effective.

Our hospital stay was as good as a hospital stay could be. There was lack of sleep, annoying things to be done constantly like vital signs, and lots of sticking my poor baby to get iv fluids in her. They must have stuck her 10 times at least during the stay. It was aweful. She had 3 collapsed veins during the stay, so they had to keep redoing the iv. It was difficult for me to see her in pain and being fooled with so much, but God and the best mother and grandmother in the world helped me through it. My mom helped me to realize that this was a great opportunity to get some reading, praying and thinking done. I was able to listen to worship music, read a great biography, and pray lots while I was there. It was a great way to pass the time!

Thank you to everyone who stepped up and helped me and my family. Thank you Tammy for being the best friend ever and organizing everything. Thanks Rachel and Tara for cleaning my house! And thanks to all who helped with my kids (Rachel, Rebekah, Amy, Erin, JJ, Janelle, Dad, Elyse. Did I miss someone?) I was telling mom that it amazes me how people rally around each other in time of need. It was awesome to see the local church in action!

Please continue to pray for us as the ordeal is not over. Things to be praying for are:

The infection stays away

Finances

Wisdom for all her Dr.'s

Rest for Danae and I

And most important protection for my baby girl in whatever needs to happen.

Last, thank you to my mom for being the most amazing person that I know. Thank you for sitting in the room with me for all those days. For holding Danae and comforting her when it was too hard for me to watch. For the many lunches and dinners you got me so I did not have to eat the food there. And mostly for being there for me. Just knowing you were there, or coming soon, helped me to get through this ordeal and I am sure it helped the baby girl too! If it were not for the fact I was her food source, I truly believe you would be her favorite person. :-) I love you!

6 comments:

megan haughery said...

poor poor baby! and poor poor mommy. i cannot even imagine what you're going through. praying for grace through it all...

Anonymous said...

The hero in this ordeal was you, honey. Watching you so selflessly care for your baby girl brought tears to my eyes more than a few times. Your love, compassion, and sense of humor through it all honored the Lord. And I got to spend lots of time with you and Danae! What a gift!

I love you!

P.S. "When is the last time I told you what a wonderful mom you are???"

Tammy said...

We are glad you and Danae are home. And, I'm sure your hubby and other kiddos are glad you are home too. Did you get to do your 3things tonight?

Jennifer Lightfoot said...

I agree with your mom, woman! I was telling her this morning that I want to be like you when I grow up. You are amazing - you walk through the challenges your babies have with such grace, patience and humor. It is simply glorious to see! ...although, I agree with you that your mom is pretty amazing! ;o)

I'm so grateful that you guys are home - I will continue to pray!!

Medana22 said...

Oh honey,
I am so thankful that you are home with your baby...I will continue to pray for your little one and complete healing and for you for rest, I complained less b/c of you. Thank you for your example of faithfuless through trial... you and your mom and both amazing!

Erin said...

Hey, you need to keep updating this thing so people can know what's going on and be praying! :)